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Coalition for Divorce Reform

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The Coalition for Divorce Reform (CDR) was established in early 2011 in the United States by Chris Gersten as "a non-partisan group of divorce reform leaders, marriage educators, domestic violence experts, scholars, and concerned citizens dedicated to supporting efforts to reduce unnecessary divorce and promote healthy marriages."[1]

About

From 2001-2005, Gersten served as Principal Deputy Assistant Secretary, Administration for Children and Families, Department of Health and Human Services. He is married to Linda Chavez, a former Reagan Administration official who was nominated by President George W. Bush to serve as Secretary of Labor.

In a May 2011 interview, Gersten said, "the breakdown of the traditional family is the social equivalent of the national debt as a crisis in America and the West."[2]

CDR advocates state passage of Parental Divorce Reduction Acts to slow the rate of family breakdown.

"These advocates now hope to lower divorce rates through laws that slow the process — with some exceptions — and encourage couples who are waiting to use opportunities to improve communication and relationship skills and hopefully reconsider."[3]

In a New York Post article, CDR Co-Chair Beverly Willett wrote, "Until our laws address the intrinsic imbalances in no-fault divorce, and restore fairness and due process, our divorce courts will continue to foster fury that’s merely fodder for the 'pros.'"[4]

Parental Divorce Reduction Act

According to CDR, the Parental Divorce Reduction Act (PDRA) is a "new research-based proposal to reduce unnecessary divorce, avoid serious lifelong consequences for children, and save taxpayers billions of dollars."

The legislation proposes covering all married couples with minor children, with the exception of:

  • spouses who are victims of domestic violence
  • spouses who have been abandoned for 18 months
  • spouses married to felons sentenced to prison for five years or longer or convicted of sexual offenses against a spouse or children
  • spouses married to alcoholics and drug addicts refusing treatment

For non-exempt couples with minor children seeking a divorce, CDR proposes state legislation mandating "an eight-month reconciliation and reflection period that begins after both parties complete a marriage education curriculum."[1]

The Washington Times reported on the proposal's potential to save billions for American taxpayers: "A new single-parent family with children can cost the government $20,000 to $30,000 a year. That's $33 billion to $112 billion a year total in divorce-related social-service subsidies and lost revenue."[5]

Colorado State Senator Kevin Lundberg was one of the first state legislators to support the Coalition's efforts, proposing a bill that "would require parents who have minor children and are considering divorce to first undergo educational instruction that tells them how this impacts their children ... We have made it just too easy to bail out of a marriage," Lundberg said.[6]

Some members of the faith-community were quick to rally behind the proposal. In April 2011, the Texas Pastor Council called on members to "be prepared to contact your State Representatives in support of this critical legislation." The Council's statement highlighted " ... the social, economic and justice system benefits from reducing divorces with children are literally immeasurable – most importantly in stopping the bleeding of broken families." [7]

Writing in Psychology Today, author Rachel Clark become an early proponent of CDR's efforts. "Many of you know that I divorced, reconciled with, and remarried my ex-husband," Clark wrote. "When I first read about the CDR, I practically fell to my knees with relief and overwhelming gratitude that someone was actually doing something about this that might actually make a difference in people's lives."[8]

A 2011 Heritage Foundation report, "Rebuilding a Culture of Marriage," also endorsed the Coalition's concept for a Parental Divorce Reduction Act: "States should recognize that a significant percentage of divorcing couples, especially those with children, would respond to reconciliation efforts and restore their marriages. States should develop policies and programs that maximize the reconciliation option."[9]

Reaction from Family Lawyers

The Washington Times reported that not everyone was in favor of the group's efforts to legislate divorce reform:

"When couples come to divorce lawyers, they usually have been through therapy already. I don’t understand the necessity of putting a reconciliation component into divorce-related or parenting programs," said family law attorney Pamela J. Waggoner, chair of the family law section of the Minnesota State Bar Association. "Since 1995, she said, she has seen only 'two or three' couples halt the divorce process to think about reconciling."[5]

Philadelphia attorney Lynne Gold-Bikin, former chair of the American Bar Association Family Law Section, has a different perspective on reconciliations from her work as a divorce lawyer. "It seems to me that we know what it takes to break up a marriage. And we ought to be able to use that to put it back together again or keep it from breaking up in the first place," she said.[10]

Leadership

Chris Gersten and Beverly Willett serve as the Coalition's co-chairs.

CDR's also has an Advisory Board that includes many of the national leaders in the field of marriage and relationship education, lawyers, a State Representative, and the dean of a Louisiana Law School:[1]

  • Beverly Willett, Esq., Chair
  • Seth Eisenberg, President/CEO, PAIRS Foundation
  • Abigail Hirsch, Ph.D., CEO, Power of Two
  • Peter Larson, Ph.D., co-developer, PREPARE/ENRICH
  • Cindy Noe, Indiana State Representative
  • Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW, Director, Divorce Busting Center
  • Bill Coffin, Senior Consultant, Marriage Educator
  • Patty Howell, Ed.M, A.G.C., President, Healthy Relationships California
  • Mike McManus, President and Co-founder, Marriage Savers
  • Sherod Miller, Ph.D., Co-Developer, Couples Communication
  • Mary Ortwein, MS, Co-author, Mastering the Mysteries of Love
  • John Crouch, Esq., Divorce Attorney; Co-Founder, Americans for Divorce Reform
  • Janice Shaw Crouse, Ph.D., Director and Senior Fellow, The Beverly LaHaye Institute, Concerned Women for America
  • Harville Hendrix, Author; Co-Founder, Imago Couples Therapy
  • J. Michael Johnson, Esq., Founding Dean, Pressler School of Law, Louisiana College
  • Nisa Muhammad, Founder, Black Marriage Day; President, Wedded Bliss Foundation
  • Scott Stanley, Ph.D., Co-Founder, PREP

See also

References

  1. ^ a b c [1] - Coalition for Divorce Reform website.
  2. ^ Willett, Beverly. "The Most Pioneering Divorce Reform Effort In 40 Years". The Huffington Post. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 
  3. ^ Israelsen-Hartley, Sara. "Reforming divorce: Changing laws to preserve families". Deseret News. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 
  4. ^ Willett, Beverly. "No fault nuttiness: Why modern divorce is lunacy". The New York Post. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 
  5. ^ a b Wetzstein, Cheryl. "Divorce reform could save billions in government aid". The Washington Times Post. Retrieved 28 October 2012. 
  6. ^ Bartels, Lynn. "Colorado legislator's bill seeks cooling-off period before getting divorce". The Denver Post. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 
  7. ^ Welch, Dave. "Saving Marriage in Texas: The Parental Divorce Reduction Act". Texas Pastor Council. Retrieved 28 October 2012. 
  8. ^ Clarke, Rachel. "Marry, Divorce, Reconcile". Psychology Today. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 
  9. ^ Donovan, Chuck. "A Marshall Plan for Marriage: Rebuilding Our Shattered Homes". The Heritage Foundation. Retrieved 28 October 2012. 
  10. ^ Kadaba, Lini S. "The unlikely crusader for marriage". Philadelphia Inquirer. Retrieved 27 October 2012. 

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