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Marriage proposal

A "one-knee" proposal on the High Line in New York City

A marriage proposal is an event where one person in a relationship asks for the other's hand in marriage.[1] If accepted, it marks the initiation of engagement. It often has a ritual quality, sometimes involving the presentation of an engagement ring and the formal asking of a question for example "Will you marry me, ...?" In the Anglosphere it is traditional for the man to make a proposal to the woman directly while genuflecting in front of her, although kneeling is not uncommon if somewhat obsequious; the man sometimes puts the engagement ring on her finger at this point, as opposed to merely offering it to her. Sometimes the proposal is intended to be a surprise. If the woman accepts the proposal, she will typically assent to the man verbally and wear the ring during the time leading up to the wedding, known as the engagement. Acceptance of the proposal is not compulsory in Western culture.

The average duration of preceding courtship varies considerably throughout the world. (See courtship duration.)

In Scotland and Ireland, 29 February in a leap year is said to be the one day when a woman can propose to her partner. Finland has the same custom, with the addition that a man rejecting such a proposal was expected to buy his suitor enough cloth for a skirt as compensation.[2] As a monarch, Queen Victoria had to propose to Prince Albert.[3] Proposals by women have become more common in the Anglosphere in recent years, with jewelry companies manufacturing engagement rings for men.[4] In the United States, about 5% of proposals are made by women. Younger people are less likely to approve of women proposing. [5]

In many cultures it is traditional for a man to ask permission from a woman's father, in private, before proposing to her. Although it is uncommon in the West these days, the parents of the couple may make a marriage arrangement, preceding or superseding the proposal. Arranged marriages were common between royals throughout most of European history; such marriage contracts and proposals were made at great distances and often without first-hand contact between the parties prior to the engagement.

See also

  • Miai (見合い?, "matchmaking", lit. "looking at one another") or omiai (お見合い?) is a Japanese traditional custom.


  1. ^ Schlesinger, Herbert J. (2008), Promises, Oaths, and Vows: On the Psychology of Promising, CRC Press, pp. 18–19, ISBN 0203927354 
  2. ^ "Leap Year Proposal: What's The Story Behind It?". 2012-02-29. Retrieved 2014-08-11. 
  3. ^ "Queen Victoria - Victoria Proposes to Albert - Eminent Women of the Age". 2014-03-14. Retrieved 2014-08-11. 
  4. ^ "Australian news article about women proposing". Retrieved 2014-08-11. 
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